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Would You Rather Questions for Couples

Would you rather is the easiest game a couple can play. There is nothing to set up and no score to keep. One of you reads a question, you both pick, and the real fun starts when you explain why. Tiny choices reveal a surprising amount about priorities, humor and daydreams.

We sorted the questions from light and silly to romantic and thoughtful. Read them aloud on a road trip, text one to your partner at lunch, or take turns before bed. Bonus rule: if you both pick different answers, each of you has to defend your choice in one sentence.

Funny would you rather questions

  1. Only whisper for a weekorOnly shout for a week
  2. Have a pet dinosaur the size of a catorHave a cat the size of a dinosaur
  3. Always have to sing instead of speakorAlways have to dance when you walk
  4. Lose your phone for a monthorLose your sense of taste for a month
  5. Wear pajamas to every formal eventorWear a suit to bed every night
  6. Have a rewind button for your lifeorHave a pause button for your life
  7. Eat only breakfast food foreverorNever eat breakfast food again
  8. Live in a treehouseorLive on a houseboat
  9. Be famous for a silly viral videoorBe completely unknown forever
  10. Only watch comediesorOnly watch documentaries

Romantic would you rather questions

  1. Get a handwritten love letterorGet a surprise weekend trip
  2. Slow dance in the kitchenorWatch the sunrise together
  3. Relive our first dateorSkip ahead to see us in ten years
  4. Always know what I am thinkingorAlways know how I am feeling
  5. Have a picnic in the parkorHave a candlelit dinner at home
  6. Get one long hug every dayorGet one surprise gift every month
  7. Travel the world together for a yearorBuild our dream home together
  8. Hear I love you every morningorHear it every night before sleep
  9. Recreate our first kissorPlan a brand new first for us
  10. Have a song written about usorHave a painting made of us

Deep would you rather questions

  1. Know the date of every big change in your lifeorBe surprised by all of them
  2. Have more timeorHave more money
  3. Be deeply understood by one personorBe liked by everyone
  4. Forget your worst memoryorKeep every memory, good and bad
  5. Live close to familyorLive somewhere you have always dreamed of
  6. Have a job you love that pays littleorHave a job you dislike that pays a lot
  7. Always be honest even when it hurtsorStay kind even if it means a white lie
  8. Have one big adventureorHave many small comforts
  9. Change one thing about the pastorSee one thing about the future
  10. Be the one who plans everythingorBe the one who is surprised by everything

Would you rather: date night edition

  1. Cook a new recipe togetherorTry a restaurant neither of us knows
  2. Stargaze on a blanketorGo to a late-night movie
  3. Play board games at homeorGo bowling
  4. Take a dance class togetherorTake a cooking class together
  5. Have a no-phone eveningorHave a movie marathon
  6. Go to an arcadeorGo to a museum
  7. Plan a date for meorLet me plan a date for you
  8. Have a themed dinner nightorHave a spontaneous drive with no destination

Would you rather: about us

  1. Always know when I am lyingorAlways get away with lying to me
  2. Have our first kiss againorHave our first fight never happen
  3. Move to a new city togetherorStay close to our families forever
  4. Share one phoneorShare one toothbrush
  5. Only communicate in song lyrics for a dayorOnly communicate in emojis for a day
  6. Have a partner who is always earlyorHave a partner who is always late
  7. Go on a date with me from ten years agoorGo on a date with me ten years from now
  8. Have me cook for you every nightorHave me plan every weekend
  9. Know every thought I have about youorKeep some mystery forever
  10. Relive our best day every yearorGet a brand new best day every year
  11. Fight about dishes foreverorFight about thermostat settings forever
  12. Have matching tattoosorHave matching outfits for a year
  13. Be a famous coupleorBe a completely private couple
  14. Get married in a castleorGet married on a beach
  15. Have ten kidsorHave ten dogs

Would you rather: silly and chaotic

  1. Fight one horse-sized duckorFight a hundred duck-sized horses
  2. Have fingers as long as your legsorHave legs as long as your fingers
  3. Always smell like garlicorAlways smell like wet dog
  4. Sneeze glitterorCry maple syrup
  5. Have a personal narratororHave a personal soundtrack
  6. Be able to talk to animalsorBe able to speak every human language
  7. Always have a song stuck in your headorAlways have an itch you cannot reach
  8. Wear clown shoes every dayorWear a clown nose every day
  9. Have a pause button for argumentsorHave a mute button for snoring
  10. Be stuck in an elevator with your exorBe stuck in an elevator with your boss
  11. Eat a spoonful of wasabiorDrink a glass of pickle juice
  12. Have a pet that talksorHave a pet that never ages
  13. Only eat cold foodorOnly eat hot food
  14. Hiccup for a whole dayorFeel like you are about to sneeze for a whole day
  15. Have your internet history made publicorHave your text messages made public

Would you rather: relationship dilemmas

  1. Have a partner who is too honestorHave a partner who is too polite
  2. Always say what you feelorAlways think before you speak
  3. Make up after every fight within an hourorTake a full day to cool down
  4. Have more date nightsorHave more alone time
  5. Receive a surprise every weekorPlan everything together
  6. Talk every day while apartorSave everything for when we meet
  7. Share every passwordorKeep your phone private
  8. Spend holidays with your familyorSpend holidays with my family
  9. Have one big anniversary triporHave twelve small monthly dates
  10. Always pick the movieorAlways pick the restaurant
  11. Be the big spoonorBe the little spoon
  12. Get love lettersorGet voice notes
  13. Know how our story endsorEnjoy not knowing
  14. Hear honest criticismorHear constant encouragement
  15. Share a blanketorHave separate blankets

Would you rather: future together

  1. Live in the cityorLive in the countryside
  2. Build a house from scratchorRenovate an old one
  3. Travel full time for a yearorBuy our dream home now
  4. Retire early and live simplyorWork longer and retire rich
  5. Have a big family dinner every SundayorHave a quiet brunch for two
  6. Start a business togetherorKeep our careers separate
  7. Grow our own foodorEat out every night
  8. Have a cozy cabinorHave a modern apartment
  9. Celebrate every holiday bigorCelebrate only our own traditions
  10. Raise kids near familyorRaise kids somewhere new
  11. Learn a language togetherorLearn an instrument together
  12. Have a gardenorHave a pool
  13. Adopt a senior dogorAdopt a puppy
  14. Take a sabbatical togetherorGet a promotion each
  15. Grow old by the seaorGrow old in the mountains

Would you rather: over text edition

  1. Get a good morning textorGet a good night text
  2. Send a voice noteorSend a selfie
  3. Text all dayorCall once at night
  4. Get a memeorGet a love note
  5. Have read receipts onorHave read receipts off
  6. Send a long paragraphorSend a single heart
  7. Use pet names in textsorUse our real names
  8. Video callorVoice call
  9. Get a playlistorGet a letter
  10. Text in only GIFs for a dayorText in only one word for a day

Would you rather: food edition

  1. Pizza every dayorTacos every day
  2. Cook togetherorOrder in together
  3. Breakfast in bedorMidnight snacks in bed
  4. Street food tourorFive-star dinner
  5. Sweet dateorSavory date
  6. Share dessertorGet your own dessert
  7. Only eat spicy foodorNever eat spicy food again
  8. Have a personal cheforHave a personal baker

Would you rather: hard choices

  1. Lose all your photosorLose all your messages
  2. Never be able to lieorNever be able to tell if someone is lying
  3. Know when you will dieorKnow how you will die
  4. Be able to flyorBe able to breathe underwater
  5. Live without musicorLive without movies
  6. Have unlimited moneyorHave unlimited time
  7. Be the funniest person in the roomorBe the smartest person in the room
  8. Lose your sense of smellorLose your sense of taste
  9. Always be coldorAlways be hot
  10. Never use social media againorNever watch TV again
  11. Speak your mind alwaysorNever speak again
  12. Be ten minutes late to everythingorBe twenty minutes early to everything
  13. Have a rewind buttonorHave a fast forward button
  14. Read mindsorBe invisible
  15. Live one life of two hundred yearsorLive two lives of one hundred years
  16. Never have to sleeporNever have to eat
  17. Be famous but dislikedorBe unknown but loved
  18. Live in spaceorLive under the sea
  19. Forget your first kissorForget your first love
  20. Always win argumentsorAlways be right
  21. Relive the same day for a yearorSkip a year of your life
  22. Have a photographic memoryorHave perfect pitch
  23. Be stuck in traffic every dayorBe stuck in long lines every day
  24. Give up coffeeorGive up chocolate
  25. Wake up at 5 am every dayorGo to bed at 3 am every night
  26. Live without air conditioningorLive without heating
  27. Be able to teleportorBe able to time travel
  28. Have a dragonorBe a dragon
  29. Only whisper when angryorOnly laugh when sad
  30. Never get stuck in traffic againorNever get a cold again
  31. Be a master cheforBe a master musician
  32. Explore spaceorExplore the deep ocean
  33. Live without the internetorLive without a car
  34. Have more friendsorHave closer friends

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Frequently asked questions

How do you play would you rather as a couple?

Take turns reading a question. Both partners pick an option at the same time, then explain their choice. The explanations are where the good conversations happen.

Can we play would you rather over text?

Yes, it is one of the best games for texting. Send one question at a time and ask your partner to answer before you reveal your pick.

What makes a good would you rather question for couples?

Both options should be tempting or both slightly annoying, so the choice actually says something about the person.

Is there a couples app with would you rather?

Loveto includes a would you rather deck you play together. You each pick on your own phone and compare answers afterwards.

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